[由亞洲婚禮網站創辦人Michelle Yuan撰寫] 

雖然很多新人在婚禮當天會一拼舉行訂婚儀式,但我和未婚夫想早一點舉行訂婚儀式(比婚禮早一年)這會是一個中國的傳統禮俗的訂婚儀式-奉茶禮,我們希望與家人舉行一個有紀念性的奉茶禮,儀式先在我父母家舉行,然後就移師台北君悅酒店,享用20人桌的午宴!我很幸運能聘請到兩組台北的頂級攝影師和錄影團隊-Milk&Honey StudiosPlayground拍照留念。

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我們的訂婚儀式非常傳統,妝髮完成後,我就回到我的房間,靜靜地等待我的未婚夫和他家人的到來;他的家人帶來了一些傳統的禮物,如鮑魚、香菇、威士忌等,每樣禮物都有6或12件,是中國傳統的幸運數字,在兩個家庭互相介紹後,奉茶禮就正式開始了!

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我從房間裏出來,向我未來的公婆敬茶,用的是枸杞紅棗龍眼茶,象徵著甜蜜的愛情,喝過茶後,我接過杯子、祝福,還有紅包;隨後,我們交換戒指,婆婆和母親則為我們戴上耳環、項鍊和手錶,媒人主持象徵性的收退聘金儀式, 然後前往台北君悅酒店參加午宴。總的來說,我很喜歡與家人共聚的時光,一同溫馨地慶祝我們兩個家庭的結合。

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我們就訂婚喜餅的事宜,找了I-Mei (義美)合作,為我們定制整套的禮餅裝飾,我們把婆婆的一幅畫作打印在盒子的內蓋上,旁邊印著我們甜蜜的愛情故事,為我們的禮餅增添了難忘的個人風格;除此以外,我們還要品嚐I-Mei(義美)所提供的不同口味的餅乾,選出最適合我們的禮餅。

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我們非常幸運能夠請到PlaygroundMilk&Honey Studio的Vanol拍攝整個儀式過程,雖然共有6位攝影,錄影師圍繞著我們,但他們都把自己隱藏得很好,幾乎察覺不到他們-我姑姑還說她完全不知道那天有他們在場! 我們的攝影師Vanol不僅能在這美好的一天完美地捕捉到很多值得紀念的瞬間,他開朗的個性,過人的幽默感和積極的態度都讓這一天變得更加愉快。

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在台北君悅酒店的漂亮餐廳所享用的豐盛午餐可謂當天最深我心的一環了,它是台北少數擁有能容納20人圓桌私人房間的餐廳,一家人坐在一起吃飯是我們很堅持的事,這個漂亮餐廳就能夠完美地實現我們的要求。我們很喜歡房間裝飾佈置,他們在桌子上灑滿了紅色玫瑰花瓣,點亮了蠟燭,還貼了一個大金紅色雙喜圖案!

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如果有時間,有機會的話,我强烈推薦你跟你最親近的家人舉行一場傳統的奉茶禮,而不是在婚禮前把它硬擠進去;以這種方式慶祝兩個家庭的結合不僅令人難忘,你更可以從中欣賞到傳統的美。

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